This post is one in a series designed to help you get out of the house and enjoy life with your child. If your child is anxious and exhibiting disruptive behaviors, these need to be overcome before moving on to outside excursions.
A Mother’s Concern
Recently a mom told me that she was worried about her 12-year old child, who is low-functioning and nonverbal.
Her daughter becomes agitated and upset in public places; she screams and puts her head down when in those settings.
The daughter also displays anxiety. The mother asked for some suggestions to relieve the child’s anxiety.
Behavioral Science Explains Why This is Happening
Let’s back up a little. From the laws of behavioral science, we know that behavior that is reinforced is behavior that will occur again. As hard as this may be to believe, the daughter is experiencing more reinforcement for screaming and putting her head down, than for an alternative behavior. What is she experiencing that is reinforcing her for screaming? We don’t know the answer to that question, and it would take a Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA) to find out, but ….
In the meantime the mother, or any parent, can take action with the following steps: (1) Collect data (2) Observe her daughter to see what kinds of functional behaviors she already has, and (3) Set up a reinforcement plan to reinforce appropriate alternative behaviors.